I don’t care how hot you are or the fact that I like you. This may be a little harsh and selfish but it’s true to human nature. Nothing is better than doing it with a woman who you’re attracted to, who adds value to your life, and does the same things you want to do. Humans are obsessed with completion, progression, reaching goals, growing, and escalating. The best way of doing that is to fill a void. Your job, just as his, is to stick out from the crowd. While that logically is congruent, he can also like many other women. Liking someone isn’t enough A lot of people believe it’s as simple as you like me and I like you so let’s date. You may also like to read : He Likes You But Does He Appreciate You? 2. It’s your job to know your value and if he’s being genuine or not. He knows he has to put forth SOME TYPE OF EFFORT. Any guy can invest a lot in the beginning and no matter what he’s looking for (relationship or to get in your pants), he’s going to invest. For me, I am a big believer in watching a guy’s investment over time. That is a mixture of many things including intuition, how long you two have talked, how much investing he has done, and what he’s actually looking for. You have the power and you’re giving it to him trusting that he’s not going to abuse it. That gives him power! Never give in to a guy unless you fully trust him. See what I am getting at? He is going to call your bluff knowing that you like him and that you’re going to stick around. In fact, he’s going to lose out on things committing to you: No reason to invest in a relationship when I am already getting the benefits while being single. If you do, he’s going to have his cake and eat it too. This all comes back around to what I said at the beginning about leverage: Don’t give in. He doesn’t want that or is even ready for one. Hence, why he’s not jumping into a relationship. The problem with that mindset you have though is that’s not for you to decide. ![]() I know you’re thinking, “Yeah dude, that’s called being a grown up and holding down a relationship.”
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